Whether it's a few hours drive, or a day long plane ride over several time zones, we never wanna be away from our loved ones. Whether it's a long distance relationship or death, love will never fade. Love cannot keep people apart.
Long distance relationships are difficult but they are manageable. The number one thing is you have to learn how to trust your partner and trust yourself. You can't sit on the couch every night wondering why he didn't call at exactly seven o'clock and assume he is cheating on you. Both partners are allowed to go out with friends, just don't get so wild you end up regretting that last drink and wake up in someone else's t-shirt. You have to realize that a long distance relationship can only work if both partners are willing to do everything in their power to make it work until you can be together again. That includes getting those commitment issues out of your head and living with your heart.
Death is always one of the biggest tragedies in life. It doesn't matter if it was a relative, spouse, or acquaintance. Death shakes everyone up. They may be gone in the physical sense but in memory, they will never die. They will live along your side as long as you want them to. Your mind holds their soul, laughter, tears, and most prized moments. Death is not really the end. As long as you choose to remember the good times, they will live on.
Love means you are never apart. It cannot be replaced by an inanimate object, or a few drinks. Whether you want it to or not it lives on, inside you, forever.
無(wú)論我們開車開了幾個(gè)小時(shí)的路程,還是在飛機(jī)上度過(guò)一天穿過(guò)幾個(gè)時(shí)區(qū),我們都希望和愛(ài)的人在一起。無(wú)論兩個(gè)人距離有多遠(yuǎn),甚至死亡,愛(ài)也不會(huì)因此淡去。愛(ài)可以讓人們永不分離。
遠(yuǎn)距離的關(guān)系的確比較難處理。首先,你必須學(xué)會(huì)如何去相信你的另一半以及自己。你不能每天晚上坐在沙發(fā)上胡思亂想,為什么7點(diǎn)了他沒(méi)有打電話來(lái),或者懷疑他是不是在欺騙你。彼此都會(huì)有朋友相約出去,只是不要太過(guò)分,為前一晚的酒醉而后悔,或者醒來(lái)發(fā)現(xiàn)自己躺在另一個(gè)人身邊。你需要明白,相隔兩地需要彼此都盡自己的努力來(lái)維持直到兩個(gè)人可以重聚。這包括你要信守你的承諾,并且一直記在心里。
死亡是生活中最大的悲傷。但是,它在親人,夫妻,知己間卻并不那么可怕。死亡震顫著每個(gè)人。他們身體感知隨著死亡而消失,但是卻永遠(yuǎn)存在于我們的記憶中。只要你想著他們的時(shí)候,就會(huì)在你的身邊。你的腦海里裝滿了對(duì)他們的感情,他們的笑語(yǔ),眼淚,以及最值得珍惜的時(shí)刻。死亡并非終結(jié)。當(dāng)你記住了他們最美好的時(shí)刻,他們便一直活著。
愛(ài)意味著你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)孤單。它不能被任何無(wú)生命的東西所替代,酒也不能解憂。不管你愿不愿意,它都永遠(yuǎn)活在你的心底。