遇到不滿意的事情和對待需要投訴時,禮貌地說比較奏效。而且有趣的是,你可能先要說SORRY,再提出你的投訴,這樣顯得很有教養和禮貌,你的問題才會得到更圓滿的解決。
比如,在商店里,收款員找錯了錢,你可以說:
"Excuse me, I think you"ve given me the wrong change"
或者 "Sorry, I think this change is wrong. I gave you $20, not $10."
在酒店里房間的調溫器壞了:"Excuse me, but there"s a problem with the heating in my room."
"Sorry to bother you, but I think there"s something wrong with the air-conditioning."
失竊了:"I"m afraid I have to make a complaint. Some money has gone missing from my hotel room."
房間沒有整理:"I"m afraid there"s a slight problem with my room - the bed hasn"t been made."
當人們發現自己錯了而道歉,一般都會說SORRY,然后再提出把事情做好的解決辦法。
比如對應上面對調溫器的投訴:"Excuse me, but there"s a problem with the heating." 或者
"I"m sorry - I"ll get someone to check it for you." 或者 "Sorry to hear that - I"ll send someone up.