Good advice for Men to read and women to enjoy.

    Women are complicated creatures, so we are led to believe. I should know as I am one of them! Men often want to know what women really want and although a good man is always eager to please, it's not always that easy to fathom out exactly what it is that we are after.

    The important thing to take into account is that when we were little girls, we loved to read fairytales and were brought up with the belief that life was really going to end up happily ever after - or at least fairly happy.

    One of the problems men face as a result of this is the woman's desire for them to act exactly according to the book of dreams and fairy tales because although we are now grown adults, the child inside is still looking for the perfect ending. Heck, a lot of us are searching for the perfect beginning or a pretty cool middle section!

    In fairytales, no-one ever told the prince what to do to win the heart of the princess, men in fiction always know what to do and how to act in order to get the girl! In the real world however, life is not as straight forward and this article is designed to give the men who read it a few ideas on how to add some romance into their relationship and make their woman smile!

    Ten little ideas that can make a big difference

    * Think of Sleeping Beauty and wake her up with breakfast or a cup of tea in bed
    * Write some cute little messages and leave them around the house for her to find. You can be creative about where you put them - her make-up bag, her underwear drawer or even in her cereal box! Doing this when you are going out of town is a really nice idea because she will just  keep finding them and never know where the next one might be!
    * Buy her a bunch of flowers just because she likes them - not because it's her birthday, Valentine's Day or you have done something wrong!
    * Cook her meal and insist that she puts her feet up and leaves you to it!
    * Run her a bath with some gorgeous bubbles, light some candles and then ask if she'd like you to scrub her back!
    * Take her to the movies once a month and let it be her choice of film
    * Offer to do the shopping - you may need a list but offering is enough to surprise her - believe me!
    * Write her a letter with your memories of how you met, tell her why you love her so much and post it! It will be a great surprise amongst the bills!
    * Tell her you are going to see your parents and then take her for a day out to the zoo/theme park/funfair instead. If she asks why you aren't going  the usual route to your parents then tell her you got lost!
    * Find a nice photograph of the two of you and frame it. Put it up and see if she notices!

    I think men often worry if they haven't got much money to spend on their girlfriend or wife but when it comes down to it, the best relationships are the ones that include the little incidental acts of kindness and love. Grand gestures may be exciting and of course we appreciate them but it's the small and thoughtful actions that bind and hold your relationship together.

    男人要看，女人可以得到享受的好建議。

    女人是復雜的生物，我們是如此的相信。 我就知道，因為我是其中一員。男人經常想知道女人真正想要的是什么，雖然一個好男人總是樂意取悅女人，但事實上不是那么容易弄清楚女人真正所要的。

    要知道的是，當我們還是小女孩的時候，我們喜歡看童話小說，我們是帶著生活應該從頭到尾都是開心的－－或者至少是比較開心的信念長大。

    因此，男人所要面對的一個問題是女人渴望她們的生活可以像書本里的美好夢想，童話小說一模一樣，因為盡管我們現在已經長大成人，心底里的孩子性仍然追求著完美的結局。 見鬼的，我們很多人都在找完美的開始或者不錯的中間部分。

    在童話故事里，沒有人會告訴王子做些什么去贏得公主的心，故事的王子總是知道做些什么，怎樣去做來得到公主的心。 可是， 在現實世界里， 生活不是那樣直接的， 這篇文章是寫給那些男人，讓他們知道怎樣在他們跟女人之間的關系上加上一點點的浪漫，讓他們的女人開懷一笑。

    10個小小的主意可以改變很多。

    * 想一下睡美人，叫醒她的時候把早餐或一杯茶放在床邊

    *寫一些可愛的小紙條，把它放在房子周圍，讓她去找。 你可以找些意想不到的地方來放－－她的化妝包，她的內衣抽屜或者甚至是她的谷物盒！當你要到其他城市的時候做這個是挺好的主意，因為她在不斷地找那些小紙條，而不知道下一次將會出現在哪里！

    *買一扎花送給她僅僅是因為她喜歡－－不是因為是她的生日，情人節或者你做錯事了。

    *為她煮一頓飯，堅持讓她消息一下讓你來做。

    *幫她洗澡，用上那些有大大泡沫的，點一些蠟燭，然后問她要你幫她擦背嗎

    *一個月跟她去看一次電影，讓她自己選擇看什么電影。

    *請纓去購物－－你也許需要一張清單，但自動請纓已經足夠讓她驚喜－－相信我吧。

    *寫一封信給她，關于你們是怎樣相遇，告訴她為什么你是那么的愛她，然后把它寄了！這是不用花多錢卻是很讓人驚喜的。

    *告訴她你準備去看望你的父母，然后卻帶她去動物園，主題公園，游樂場。如果問起為什么你不是按照之前定好的路線去你父母家時，告訴她你迷路了。

    *找一張是你們的好看的相片，幫它弄個相框，把它掛起來，看她是否可以留意到！

    我想， 男人經常擔心他們沒有足夠的錢花在女朋友或老婆身上， 但當來到這份上，關系最好的是那些在一些小事上表現出了愛跟心意。 大事張揚也許是讓人興奮的，的確，我們也喜歡。但把你們緊緊綁在一齊的是那些小小的體貼的行動。